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| "The Emotional Freedom & Healing News" © 2003 Richard Ross. All rights reserved. |
Issue #105 - October 5, 2003 |
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Table of Contents: 1. Checking In Greetings and Welcome. I'm trying a new newsletter masthead beginning with this issue. I hope you like it and I would love to hear your feedback. During the last six months I have lost 30 lbs and a 20 year full beard. I wanted to show you what I look like (above) without them both<g>. 2. The Essence of This Issue Almost all us have at least one recurring or persistent issue in our life, an issue or seeming problem that never seems to completely resolve. In this newsletter below I'm offering several thoughts about why those issues continue to persist. In the next newsletter in (two weeks) I'll give you an exercise designed to begin the process of releasing them. 3. Some Thoughts on Healing - Persistent Issues © 2003 Richard Ross. All rights reserved. Almost all us have at least one recurring or persistent issue in our life, an issue or seeming problem that never seems to completely resolve. Whenever we have a persistent issue there is almost always a polarity of attachment and aversion involved. Another way of saying this is that one part of us does not want the issue (is pushing against it) and another part of us actually wants it (is getting something from it} on some level. In almost every case we are only consciously aware of one side of the polarity, the part that is pushing against the issue. For example, if our persistent issue happens to be that we never have the right relationship partner, or we never have enough money, we are always 'painfully' aware of the not having it. But we are usually blind to that side of US that is pushing it away. Conversely, if the issue is around something that we have but don't want, say chronic fatigue, panic, or recurring memories, we are always crystal clear about the part of us that doesn't want the issue, while we are almost always blind to the side of us that is attached to it. "How could I possibly want that???" Please understand that what I'm speaking about is always happening at the unconscious level, so none of what I'm saying here is about judgment or blame. You are NOT at fault for your issues. The only reason I am speaking about any of this is to help you understand the dynamics of what is going on and to help you find the path to healing. What most of us do when we have a stuck issue is to focus all of our energy and attention on the one side of the polarity we are conscious of. This almost never works! At least not for long. Because when we do this, we are always amplifying the unconscious side of the polarity, and that is guaranteed to keep us stuck. The issue is like a big rubber band, and the more we pull on one end, the more the other end comes toward us. As you read these words, does any of this "feel" familiar to you? All of these dynamics are happening on a deep cellular level. And they need to be addressed on the cellular level. So where do these "cellular level" issues come? Usually they come from some early trauma or message we received when we were very young. This is why, when I work with a client on any issue, we always focus our release work on clearing both sides of the issue, the attachment AND the aversion. In the next newsletter (in 2 weeks) I will give you a simple and effective energy exercise you can use to begin the process of releasing your own issues in this way. A note from Richard: If you want more joy in your life, I can help! I offer individual healing and coaching sessions by telephone across the country and abroad (all over the world), to support you in moving past fears, depression, abuse and panic issues, and any limiting beliefs that are keeping you from being a full expression of who you are. I created the EF&H healing modalities to help you move through issues in a peaceful, gentle way. If you are ready to experience more joy in your life, write me now at emotionalfreedom@richardross.com or call me at (541) 482-0800 to arrange a free consultation and coaching. 4. Food For Thought
Each week I receive wonderful feedback from my individual clients, students, and workshop attendees. Want to see a recent sampling? Simply send a blank email to clientfeedback@richardross.com . You will have the information within one minute. 5. Teleclass Programs Express Your Healing Abilities! I wish you all a wonderful, light-filled two weeks! The next issue will be
on October 20th. Last, but not least: Copyright (c) 2003, all rights reserved. The "The Emotional Freedom & Healing News" is published twice monthly. It is mailed on the first and third Monday of every month. Permission is granted to reproduce, copy or distribute this newsletter (in it's entirety please). The author of this newsletter is: Richard Ross. Contact him by email at: emotionalfreedom@richardross.com , or by phone at (800) 653-4465 or 541-245-0900 to arrange a free consultation. Support a friend! Please consider forwarding this newsletter to your friends, associates, and to your personal and professional lists. Your recommendation is how we grow, and the information contained here will help them grow. |
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